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  • I like being a fat old man giving my seed to a young man. There is something incredibly powerful and creative and caring and giving about shooting my load up into a man, and then have him shoot his load (which I imagine contains part of my essence) back onto (or into) me, so the energy goes full circle. Sadly, we can’t do that any more.
    Never done it with a woman, so I can’t comment.

    • we can’t do that any more.
      but you do it with your Lover, right?

      • As often as we can, but his experience of sex is different than mine; he is more genital-focused and doesn’t really get the spiritual energy out of it that I get. **Sigh!**

        • Grrrrrr
          that’s so frustrating to hear!
          because you obviously are very… Energetic
          the energy you project with your face, eyes… body, hands… Mouth!
          i can only imagine what that’d be like with your cock and seed!
          it always surprises me
          the couples we end up in
          loving
          nurturing
          but always with some huge chunk missing
          that we just have to shrug and say
          ‘well, i love him anyway’
          and get on with it
          what blessings or wishes can be bestowed upon you?
          }ponders….{
          OH!
          i wish for you
          that you get a third commited person in your relationship that is a very energetic spiritual yogi playmate
          that you can fuck naked
          and be fucked naked by!
          and dance
          and play
          and make love
          in a way that even brings your current lover closer into it
          to give your life even fuller satisfaction!
          (grin)
          you’re in Utah, afterall
          what are you doing with only one wife!?
          (but seriously: i’ve never been interested in coupling: always been interested in family-ing… )
          HUGS and Blessings…

          • Well, I generally look outside the relationship for energy work. I love him a lot, and we are a good couple; he doesn’t drink, smoke or do drugs, is good with money (I’m not) and he isn’t interested in being the “star,” so I get that role all to myself…
            Our relationship works in a lot of ways, but I don’t think either of us could handle the stress of a third partner. That would blow the balance all to hell.
            So we go to bear runs as often as time & money permit, and I get what I need there.
            In fact, I just made plans to be at Spring Thaw today, since we can’t afford our usual April week in Sint Maarten, with airfares running $1100 to $1200 per.
            DT

          • My fantasy is to live in a huge house/commune full of perhaps a dozen bears, cubs, daddies, chubs, otters and faeries.
            In my fantasy we’d all be negative and be scrupulously safe in all outside-the-house play, and we could have weekly sex magick work, fucking and sucking raw, reveling in shooting, breeding, seeding and cumming onto and into each other.
            That’s my fantasy, anyway.

          • yeah, i’m there with you, Daddy
            (grin)
            in an environment like that
            which is safe and playful and supportive
            and CONSCIOUS
            i wonder what could be discovered?
            i know there is something more to sex than generally gets to be done with it
            i mean
            straight sex can make babies!
            it can also start wars! (see the greeks)
            gay sex is generally called “recreational”
            which i think of as “re-creation-al”
            and know that
            if the energy was kept in a family
            and not scattered out all over the place
            it’d be like a cauldron
            and we’d be able to super-charge eachother with love/cum
            in the crazy world we live in
            i come up with crazy solutions:
            We Will Fuck in a Better Future for us ALL!
            have you ever been to a Faery Gathering?
            you (two) should do that in place of a bear run once, to see how you jive with it
            the closest one is Breitenbush in Feburary (during IBR) or August
            a hot springs resort
            only a few hours away
            amazing!
            the one in Tennessee is pretty fucking fascintating, though
            because there are women and children there
            and it’s been in place almost 30 years
            and is jointed with over 5000acres of land owned by gay men in the area
            YUM!

          • I’ve never been to a big Gathering like Wolf Mountain, but I was a Faerie for 8 or 9 years, through three boyfriends, finally losing interest around 2000. I wanted to spend more time with masculine and daddy energy; faerie energy does tend to feminine and boyish. I used to joke I was “getting in touch with my inner daddy”. He and I are on pretty familiar terms these days, and I’m feeling a pendulum swing the other way.
            Sometimes even daddy needs a daddy, ya know?

          • faeries
            Well….
            i’ve known the faeries now since 99
            and go through waves of being totally over them
            to loving them all
            they try too hard
            and are incredibly flakey…
            but they’re also a bunch of amazing people living their dreams in really strange colourful ways
            however
            if you’ve never been to a gathering
            i highly recommend that
            because it is being in the mass of all that
            in the forest
            watching it all slide by
            and getting caught up in swirls of it…
            that’s the best part.
            Head down to Short Mountain either for Beltane (may 1st — a week on either side) or the Fall (sometime in October)
            absolutely beautiful
            much more down-to-earth than Wolf creek
            while still being pretty crazy
            nice hiking
            chilling out
            and sex!
            (grin)
            And Yeah
            everyone needs a daddy sometime
            i’ve been daddy for lots of friends throught my life
            and i’m fine with that
            and i certainly enjoy having a daddy from time to time…
            i’ll be your daddy, boy…
            though i was just explaining this morning how being around someone bigger and older than you automatically helps people slip into the diminutive
            which allows a lot of us guys that are often holding things together
            to release and allow ourselves to be nurtured…
            do you have any friends that are bigger daddies than you that cuddle and protect you?
            HUGS

          • Re: faeries
            Like guys with big dicks are automatically expected to be tops, a guy my size is sort of defaulted to “daddy” mode. I don’t mind, but it makes it hard to find someone brave enough to take on the daddy role when I need it.
            The last guy that made me feel boyish and vulnerable and protected and open is about 5’7″ and maybe 130 lbs. But the first time he fucked me it released such powerful emotions that I wept… which sort of scared the shit out of him! To his credit he didn’t freak out or ask me to leave, he just let me cry it out. That’s how he came to be “mi papito.”
            He lives in another time zone, unfortunately…
            I don’t meet many men bigger than myself, but I am fascinated by taller men…

  • I enjoy porn in general.
    It all has something interesting to offer.
    I agree with much of what you’ve said regarding straight porn,
    but generally,
    I find gay porn
    (of ALL varieties)
    to be more arousing.
    I’ll never know why.

    • yeah, i hear that a lot from grlz
      (shrugs)
      and i think that is the bassis for a lot “queer” sex
      we do gender-projection games
      and i know you’re mostly “hetero”
      but you’re still queer
      that’s part of what i’ve been going through in the last week about this:
      how much do i want to get into my “girl” and make my butt my “pussy”?
      i don’t like that word because it seems deminutive
      but i do like the word “cunt”
      coz it sounds strong
      like a cock
      as opposed to a prick…
      anyway… la la la

  • Hugs to you. Reading you gives me hope.

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